You've made the decision to downsize your parent's living situation - either scaling back their home for safety and ease, or moving to a smaller place. That was the hardest part! Now it's time to deal with a lifetime of possessions. The parent may want to keep their most valuable things close until they die. For the rest, it's time to shed excess belongings. This is an emotionally difficult time for the parent, kids and other loved ones, representing the final transition of their life.
It is possible that you, your parent, siblings and other loved ones can peaceably sort through things with good memories, and have a clear vision of what to do with each item. I mean, anything is possible? However - more likely - your parent may struggle letting go. You may not have the strong back of your youth. Your siblings may slip a few things into their pockets. This is when you might want a second opinion from a neutral source. Professional Organizers can quickly and compassionately assess a situation and give a few different options on moving forward. They are masters of determining what can be sold, donated, or thrown away. Having a 3rd party voice may be just the thing to ease tensions and emotions so the way forward is positive. Google Professional Organizers in your area - they are a wealth of good information!
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